I trust HIM.

I was asking God, "you know, he was such an okay guy. Nice. Smart.Genuinely good. Why didn't you think he was good enough?" and God said, "because he didn't love you". And that really hurt at first but I know the heart of all that. God's great desire for me is to love and be loved by a man who loves God more than he loves me. That is the only kind of man who could love me right and who could actually willingly lay down his life for me the way Christ did. It's a powerful promise. And now I understand why it hurts God when we settle. He wants more for us than we believe we could ever deserve.